Building a Godly Family: The Foundaton of a Godly Society
Building a Godly family is essential in our Christian society because families are the foundation of our communities. The state of the society reflects the nature of its families. When we nurture Godly families, we cultivate a Godly society.
Unfortunately, every society—including the Christian community—will suffer if we neglect to build strong, faith-based families. Ungodly influences can infiltrate the church and weaken Christian values. To prevent this, we must ensure that God’s laws govern our homes. As the saying goes, “Charity begins at home.” Everything—good or bad—starts within the family, making it crucial to build our homes on a strong spiritual foundation.
What is a Godly Family?
A Godly family derives its values from the Word of God. While many families adopt traditions based on ancestry, culture, and societal influences, true Christian families align their values with God’s principles. Whatever we practice in our homes will inevitably shape the society around us.
God has provided clear guidelines for building a Godly family. A thriving Christian home can only be achieved when we follow His principles.
Steps to Building a Godly Family
1. Lay Your Family’s Foundation on God’s Laws
God has given us His Word as a guide for living a Christ-centered life. His laws outline His will, and where His Word is obeyed, His will prevails. A family seeking to be Godly must adhere to biblical principles regarding family life.
Ensure your family values align with Scripture, leading your household in conformity with God’s Word. The Bible provides instructions on what God expects from us in every aspect of life. Following His guidance establishes a strong, unshakable foundation for your family.
2. Base Your Family Values on the Word of God
One major challenge Christian families face today is adopting societal lifestyles instead of following biblical teachings. While we live in this world, we are not of this world (John 17:16 NKJV).
“They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world.”
This means we should not conform to worldly values but instead live by God’s principles. When we deviate from His laws, we stray from His path. Parents must commit to raising their children according to God’s Word so that as they grow, they remain steadfast in faith and righteousness (Proverbs 22:6 NKJV).
“Train up a child in the way he should go,
And when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
3. Keep Your Family United Through Prayer
As the saying goes, “A family that prays together stays together.” Prayer is the key to unlocking God’s power and blessings. It is an essential tool that strengthens family bonds and provides divine direction.
Though God is all-powerful, His law requires us to seek Him in prayer. He respects our free will and desires that we invite Him into our lives through prayer. Scripture reminds us to ask, and we shall receive (Matthew 7:7). When families pray together, they experience unity, divine guidance, and spiritual strength.
Matthew 7:7 – NKJV
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”
4. Serve in God’s Kingdom as a Family
Every Christian family is an extension of God’s larger family, the body of Christ. Families should actively participate in God’s work, contributing to His kingdom in meaningful ways.
For instance, my friend and I encouraged our children to join the church’s technical team to assist with church activities. This is just one example of how families can serve together.
The most important way to serve God is through evangelism and soul-winning. Jesus called us to continue His mission of leading others to salvation. If you are a believer but are not actively involved in soul-winning, you are missing an essential part of your Christian calling. When we work in God’s vineyard, He blesses our lives abundantly.
Conclusion
Building a Godly family requires more than physical effort; it involves deep spiritual commitment. Families must pray together, study the Bible, and engage in spiritual disciplines such as fasting. Seeking God’s guidance ensures His presence in our homes.
Family is God’s design, and He is the ultimate guide in creating a thriving, faith-filled home. The importance of a Godly family cannot be overstated, as it fosters a healthy, God-centered society.
By following these principles, you can build the Godly family you desire, one rooted in faith, love, and divine purpose.
